When You Don't Know Where to Turn / A Self-Diagnosing Guide to Counseling and Therapy

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Gutenberg ID

44926

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When You Don't Know Where to Turn / A Self-Diagnosing Guide to Counseling and Therapy

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en

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A self-diagnosing guide to counseling and therapy, this book helps readers navigate the bewildering array of mental health professions and approaches. It critiques the inflation of diagnostic labels and the dominance of one-size-fits-all treatments, urging individuals to take responsibility for choosing a practitioner and therapy that align with their specific personality, problems, and life circumstances.

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When You Don't Know Where to Turn, authored by Steven J. Bartlett, Ph.D., serves as a comprehensive self-diagnosing guide to the complex landscape of counseling and psychotherapy. The book argues that the modern proliferation of psychiatric diagnostic labels often obscures the unique nature of individual human problems, reducing complex personal struggles to arbitrary syndromes. While psychiatry has expanded its list of disorders, Bartlett contends that clinical psychology and counseling have narrowed their options, becoming dominated by a one-size-fits-all cognitive-behavioral approach favored by insurance companies for its brevity and efficiency. This trend risks ignoring the vast differences among individuals and their specific needs. The text is structured to empower readers to navigate this "therapeutic jungle" by categorizing the field into mainstream professions—such as social workers, psychologists, and psychiatrists—and outside-the-mainstream alternatives, including religious counselors and biofeedback therapists. Bartlett details the backgrounds, training, fees, and durations of treatment for each, covering a wide spectrum of approaches from psychoanalysis and client-centered therapy to Gestalt, existential-humanistic, Adlerian, and behavioral psychotherapies. He also explores adjunctive therapies like meditation, hypnosis, exercise, and nutrition. A central theme of the book is the necessity of the client's active role in the healing process. Bartlett distinguishes between passive patients, common in medical settings for physical ailments, and active learners required for psychological change. He posits that therapy is a bridge between one's current state and a desired future, a journey requiring insight, will, and action from the individual suffering. The author emphasizes that responsibility for change remains with the client; enlisting a therapist does not absolve one of the duty to create oneself. Practical concerns are addressed throughout, including how to locate a therapist, the implications of confidentiality, the costs involved, and the question of whether therapy actually works. Bartlett warns of the risks of ignoring emotional pain, noting that suppressed distress tends to resurface with greater severity. He also highlights potential unintended consequences of therapy, such as the breakdown of a self-destructive marriage as a client gains self-esteem. Ultimately, the book aims to save readers time, money, and emotional energy by helping them avoid irrelevant treatments and find a path that fosters genuine personal growth and freedom, encouraging individuals to take responsibility for their choices despite the pressures of a mechanized healthcare system.

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Categories

• Psychology
• Counseling