Etiquette

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Gutenberg ID

14314

Title

Etiquette

Language

en

Book source

Project Gutenberg

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Emily Post's classic guide defines the relationship between manners and morality, offering timeless rules for social conduct in society, business, and home. With wit and authority, it covers everything from introductions and dining to mourning and travel, aiming to smooth personal contacts and elevate character through good taste.

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In her comprehensive manual, Emily Post argues that etiquette is far more than a collection of trivial conventions; it is an essential component of civilized life and a reflection of true moral character. The book traces the evolution of manners from the rigid hierarchies of feudal courts to the pragmatic realities of the industrial age, asserting that politeness serves as a vital safeguard for human relationships. Post addresses a vast array of social scenarios, providing specific instructions on everything from greeting guests and conducting oneself at public gatherings to managing household staff and navigating the complexities of weddings, funerals, and mourning. The text distinguishes between different levels of society while offering practical advice for both men and women, ranging from the debutante to the widower. Through anecdotes and direct instruction, Post teaches that while money and rank have shifted social hierarchies, the fundamental principles of consideration, tact, and good breeding remain the foundation of a harmonious community. She emphasizes that attention to detail in trifles makes one liked and respected, noting that great merit or failings may command respect, but small attentions determine whether one is simply liked or disliked. Post dedicates significant attention to the obligations of presence at funerals, the proper wearing of mourning attire, and the etiquette of acknowledging sympathy. She clarifies that a family in mourning is in retirement from social activities and that responses to condolences should be personal yet concise. The book also details the hospitality required for house parties, insisting that every guest deserves their own room with a private bath and that hostesses must ensure no one arrives to an empty house. Furthermore, she covers the nuances of dress codes, seating arrangements, letter writing, and conversation topics, aiming to instill dignity and grace in all aspects of daily life. Ultimately, the work serves as a practical handbook for maintaining the 'armor of diplomatic etiquette' necessary to keep the wheels of life running smoothly.

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