The Wedding Ring / A Series of Discourses for Husbands and Wives and Those Contemplating Matrimony

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22343

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The Wedding Ring / A Series of Discourses for Husbands and Wives and Those Contemplating Matrimony

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en

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Project Gutenberg

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T. De Witt Talmage's sermon collection offers profound guidance for husbands, wives, and those contemplating marriage. With a tone of earnest moral instruction, the book explores the sacred nature of the home, the critical importance of choosing a compatible partner through prayer, and the enduring spiritual significance of family life.

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In *The Wedding Ring*, T. De Witt Talmage delivers a profound series of discourses designed for husbands, wives, and those contemplating matrimony. The work begins with a stern warning against marrying for mere appearance or social convenience, urging instead that individuals seek divine direction when choosing a spouse. Talmage illustrates the gravity of this choice through historical and biblical examples, noting that many great men, including Samson, Socrates, and John Wesley, suffered disastrous consequences due to poor marital selections. He argues that marriage is a lifelong covenant that cannot be easily broken, making the initial choice irrevocable and sacred. A central theme of the text is the sanctity of the private home. Talmage contrasts the transient, morally hazardous nature of boarding houses and hotels with the stability of a family hearth. He describes a home as a "castle" protected from outside influence, where memories accumulate and character is formed. He emphasizes that a home is essential for practicing true hospitality, a grace often lost in public residences. Furthermore, he advocates for building small, affordable homes rather than waiting for wealth, arguing that a modest dwelling with a family altar is far superior to a palace without a home spirit. The discourses also address the critical role of parenting, framing the home as a school where parents' words and actions shape their children's future character. Talmage warns that a dark home produces bad children, while a cheerful, Christ-centered household fosters innocence and joy. He stresses the responsibility of parents to inculcate Christian principles, lest their children curse them in the afterlife. The work concludes with a vision of heaven as the ultimate home, where earthly sorrows end and families are reunited eternally. Throughout, Talmage blends theological insight with practical advice, urging readers to prioritize spiritual values over material wealth and to build homes that serve as a vestibule to eternity.

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